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Dating Tips, Date Women

2007-02-04T08:33:00.000-08:00

Top 6 Dating Tips To Help You Date Women And Succeed At It! Read About The Rules Of Dating And How You Can Naturally Attract The Right Women.

Dating women is extremely easy once you know what to do. But if you don’t know where to start that’s fine because here are some dating tips on what you should do on dates and how you can attract women while enjoying yourself at the same time.

Tip 1: Look Good

You may not be the most handsome guy in the world but that doesn’t mean that you can’t look good! Self grooming is extremely important and it doesn’t take a lot of effort to clean up before a date and pull on a clean ironed shirt. If you date women looking like a slob it’s no wonder that they’re not interested in you. Small tips to remember include bathing, smelling good, and trimming away nose hair.

Tip 2: Don’t Lie

Out of all the dating tips, this is probably one of the most important once of them all. I realize that more often than not it is easier to lie about certain things or even embellish on the truth to make your life sound more interesting. However the more you life the harder it is to keep track of the details and after your 4th date with the same woman will you actually remember the lies you’ve told since your first date?

Tip 3: Have A Sense Of Humor

Women love to date men who have a good sense of humor. If you can make her laugh half your battle is already won. This is because by making her laugh she is happy and enjoying herself. Laughing is also good because it creates positive vibes and leaves her with good memories of her date with you. When she remembers how fun this date was she’ll want to go out with you again for sure!

Tip 4: Be Yourself

Most dating tips will tell you that there are expectations that you have to live up to in order to attract and date women. This is not true! Men and even women always forget that pretending to be someone else will not work for long. This goes back to the 2nd tip of not lying because sooner or later the truth will slip out. And besides, wouldn’t you much rather have women date you for who you are rather than someone you are pretending to be?

Tip 5: Be A Mystery

One of the most important dating tips is to make sure that you are never always available. Women are curious and naturally attracted to what they don’t know. So if you project yourself as a bit of a mystery they will naturally want to go out with you more. So when they call you it’s advisable to not always be available at their beck and call. This is one of the most important rules of dating. Be nice but don’t be too nice and you will have women always coming back for more.

Tip 6: Enjoy Dating

The final tip to succeed at dating and women is to actually enjoy your dates. There is no point in dating or trying to find someone if all you do is stress out on your dates on how you can make it perfect or how you sound or look like. Dating women is supposed to be relaxing and enjoyable. If you are not enjoying yourself she will be able to tell and in turn she won’t have a good date either. Don’t expect too much out of a single date and who knows; even if you don’t find your significant other or soulmate, dating women could get you a new best friend.

About The Author

Cher Sern Lim

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Online Dating Secrets For Single Men

2007-02-04T08:32:00.001-08:00

There is no need for single men to be lonely. Online dating has an infinite supply of women eager to meet men!!

Looking To Meet Women?

Craving Female Company?

Well, you’ve come to the right place! The internet is an ENDLESS supply of quality ladies for you to date and have a lot of FUN!

Regardless of your situation, age or looks, YOU can do this!

Bored of sitting at home on the weekends and going to bed alone?

How would you feel if you could meet and seduce women as often as you liked?

How much confidence and sense of well being would that give you?

Society is structured so that men have to be the aggressors in the seduction of women. That is a fact. So we men have no option but to learn the art of attraction.

Or, we settle for someone that is not worthy of us. Even worse, we may remain lonely with no woman...

Now I don’t like the sound of that! I bet you don’t either!

Imagine the quality of partner you can attract, once you have the experience and confidence from gaining these skills. That’s what motivated me to learn them.

I was struggling with meeting women after suddenly becoming single. I was 36 and been in a permanent, nine year live in de-facto relationship.

I realized I‘d lost the skills I had, when I met my ex-partner. She was slim, attractive, healthy and fun, unfortunately we grew apart.

So there I was, out in the singles jungle, slashing at the undergrowth looking for a lover. It was a lot harder than I had imagined it would be. Have you been there...

I couldn’t believe the average women I was meeting, showing little interest in me. This is what bugged me the most.

Who the hell do they think they are? I constantly asked.

So, as I wasn’t creating a spark in these women I was meeting. I decided to do something about it and RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH!

Then I realized I had to take ACTION, ACTION, and ACTION! It was from this research, success and my experience that I wrote the book;

‘How to Meet Women on the Internet’

I found it easier for me to meet women on the internet as it suited my lifestyle. This is not to say that it’s the only place I meet women as now I meet them EVERYWHERE!

Although I definitely enjoy sourcing dates on the internet. It is the best way to start, if you haven’t been dating for a while and need to get back into it. You may be recently divorced, seperated, split up...or just fed up with dating and given up.

Well, online dating will get you back in the game!

Life is too short to spend it without knowing how to meet women. This is such an important skill and is available to each and every one of us. It isn’t hard, but is does mean taking ACTION on learning and applying new skills.

The good news is that any man can learn these skills! It makes no difference what your current situation and past is. One thing to keep reminding yourself of is this;

‘The past does not equal the future.'

This means that you can design your life and be who you want to be.

NOW!

If you want to change your life and have fun meeting interesting women, these skills are a must.

You may already have good skills and just need to complete the package.

So get ahead of the singles dating pack and be a man of distinction...check out our FREE weekly newsletter and our guide now...

Women love it when men use these skills and are attracted to them subconsciously. You’ll be proud of yourself when you have these skills in place and in your life forever!

Can you see yourself with the great partner you want! She’s looking for you as you are reading this. Get to her first before someone just like you does...

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Regards and happy seductions!

Mick Jones

About The Author

Mick Jones has cut his teeth on the front lines of the dating battlefields. After many wounds and near death experiences he began to win a high percentage of battles. :-]

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What Women Want

2007-02-04T08:30:00.000-08:00

Look at pictures of 50 Cent with women...and who do you think's reality is it? His reality or the girl he's with? She is happy just to be 'near him' and even if you take away the celebrity of men like this, if they still have a strong reality, they will still have hot women in their life.

I've said before that there is still hope for the average American man who really understands natural attraction (without having to be termed as a player or seducer); in fact you can live the lifestyle of your dreams while also giving women what they are looking for. Of course our women bring a lot of great value and excitement to life (why men fall for them in the first place), but I'm looking at the other side because men are feeling a lot of confusion when dealing with independent women.

Women are dying to finally meet a man who can just be someone who does not put up with her drama or puts and keeps her on a pedestal.

Unfortunately because it has become so much a part of who she is, it works out for the both of you to have a short-term relationship. Otherwise her natural independence and diva like behavior will automatically infiltrate your lifestyle and create a shaky and unstable ground because that is where her reality is based off of.

Of course women will say that they want the attention and to be put on a pedestal; this is only because this is her perception of reality and what our society has programmed her to be.

It is denying everything that is universally biological about her, and that is why she cannot explain it. Women have so many more options other than 'just' to be a mother nowadays. That is why things are different from what she says she wants in a man and what she will often accept when she does find a man (no matter his looks) who knows how to trigger even any little part of her biological unconscious behavior.

That is why she will often accept men who are ugly fat and balding only because they did not put up with her high-level crap and instead treat her like a lady where she is second and he is first ((because that, I'm sorry but that is the way it's supposed to be (and I have proof) and that is what women want)).

The 40 year old virgins that we have are a result or byproduct of everything that is going on (which I go in detail in my book as the 'forced reality'). This is a blatant slap in the face to the continuance and existence of all humankind. It is a very serious problem, even though we may laugh at it at the theater.

Okay the guys of us who of 'got some' may laugh at the theater but we may all actually know some guys who do not know how to be successful if women. This is NOT natural at all, I believe these men DO know how to perpetuate and go through the process of natural attraction in order to procreate; but all of this cultural junk and garbage has gotten in the way.

The pervasive 'forced reality' which is perceptual (yet so real) has covered what women want. Women still want a man to be a man (and this is just as real). Unfortunately the effects of feminism encourage men to be 'sensitive' towards women. This may stop most men from trying to be 'dominant' towards them.

You see all these ads with women biting men or men at their heels or service; this is part of the whole problem; but nothing has changed what women want underneath. In fact they want a man to be a man more than EVER. How do you give women what they want? Read my book 'Mens' Guide to Women'.

How can guys like 50 Cent live in a candy shop and most (American) guys are still so frustrated? Well if you look around, there's a candy shop of women everywhere who are fixing themselves up and waiting for a real man.

Of course they are competing with other women but for what final purpose? To attract a real man. You can't let their now inherent 'drama' throw you off; they're not going to tell you how to act. You have to BE the man who has boundaries.

This works for short terms relationships in what I call the AMP (accelerated mating process). Today's women are very sexually aware and repressed. They don't want to keep attracting jerks. They are wondering why their physical counterparts don't 'get it' and have had to settle for less in many cases even to relieve their sexual repression.

Women want men to be men who define their boundaries respectfully (and at the forefront) and then the woman can choose to be with him or not. Ironically, this is what she is massively attracted to because the paradigm is finally set naturally and because no other (healthy and balanced) men are doing this.

About The Author

Rion Williams offers a free newsletter subscription on how to have 'natural success with women' and dating.

You can sign up for the free newsletter just by visiting his website 'http://www.mensguidetowomen.com/E_player.htm' You will receive some free bonuses as well and you can then read about his 352 page unabridged 'Men's Guide to Women' instantly downloadable eBook. It will change the way you think about dating and women forever.

How to Approach a Woman and Score

2007-02-04T08:29:00.002-08:00

A lot of men preceive the task of starting a conversation with a woman especially if she is highly attractive stranger a hard and discomforting one. Besides that, they typically take the wrong attitude of being too nice and over openhanded with flowers, paying for dinners and expressing their lack of confidence and low self esteem.

The women on their part are not attracted to unconfident, dishonest, wussy men. They will either decline him on the spot or possibly worse take advantage of the situation by exploiting him to furnish her meal after meal, present after present and usually see other man for real love, romance and sex. In this situation the woman has two men a provider and a lover.

The nice boy, fawning, wussy approach may be observed Whenever a man is requsting a woman to dance or offer to buy her a drink without ever to build the attraction or chemistry.

Is Cocky rather then Wussy is the answer?

The nice boy attitude is not the perfect way as we realized above and being really mean and vulgar won't function either, the correct way that has proven 90% of the times to work magnificently with women is the confident, bold, cocky and funny attitude.

In this approach you build the relationships on a give and take, a flattering remark and a bust (with a smile), you indicate the woman you'r self assured enough to criticize her, you express yourself naturally neer women, you aren't scared of her, you are not caring if she likes you or not, you are genuine and express your opinions openly, you are playing the confident hard funny guy. Now you bring her self confidence to the test, you challenge her, you intrigue her, you build the attraction. Let her chase you! You need to be her prize, a reward for her hard earned efforts for behaving like she should have with you.

For example you start and Say something such as: I like your jacket it's really nice (a flattering remark), then comment: but it doesn't fit so well with your shoos does it ? (a bust), you do it on purpose, you ought to practice on it.

You should tease her like hand it to her and then take it away in the last minute, be spontaneous, unexpected, a teaser and fascinating.

How do you know if she is interested?

Its simpler than you believe and it goes like that: You engage with her: What a beautiful pair of boots you'r wearing , I really like them, She is looking who is it and then say: Thanks. You: arent you melting in them at such a hot weather? (smiling) or are you trying to hide your feet from me? She: (smiling) hell, no, I love them thats all, Ill bet my feet are nicer in comparison with yours, Mr. long nose. (she responded so she is engaged too *-). You: wow, I understand you develop a very good opinion about yourself attractive lady, why wont we arrange a feet contest...

The important thing is to keep it running with light humoristic and fun approach. Without even realizing it you are mutually engaged in developing a relationship and building your mutual attraction.

Whenever you start dating with a woman keep in mind you are not on an employment interview, don't make it sound like questions and answers, don't make it boring, don't try to show off, talk with her just about general things she likes and sympathize with, such as famous Television shows etc, it may look to you at first to a certain extent superficial but this is the way to go. Try to avoid, at least at the begining, talking on your problems at work, your relations with your parents etc'.

About The Author

Amit Laufer is a writer and internet marketer.
MBA & Bsc. Computers and Information Systems
Owner Editor of: http://www.dates-i-love.com/

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The Top 3 Things Every Woman Wants For Valentine’s Day

2007-02-04T08:29:00.001-08:00

Valentine's Day is around the corner. So what do you get her this year? Maybe you're tired of doing the same old "red roses and a box of chocolates" thing and you want to make this year a Valentine's Day she'll remember without spending a fortune.

Here are the top three things every woman wants for Valentine's Day. You may be surprised!

1. A Show of Effort

Women want to know that their man has put some thought and energy into making their Valentine's Day special. They want to see that there was time spent in preparation for the evening. It's not about how much money you spend. In fact, it's better to have spent more time than money on Valentine's Day.

Plan an evening that requires a little forethought, and preparation. Women know if you just stopped at the local convenience store to pick up some roses on your way over. Give her a night dedicated to her wants and desires - not just something thrown together at the last moment.

2. Proof You Listen to Her and Know What She Likes

As a man, one of your most important jobs in your relationship is to listen to your woman. Women drop clues on a constant basis in everyday talk. For example, if the two of you are out shopping, she might see a bunch of tulips, and say "I just love tulips! Pink tulips are my favorite flower." One of the best things you can do is hear that information, remember it, and use it at a later time.

Then on Valentine's Day buy her pink tulips instead of the standard red roses. Chances are she will be so impressed that you even knew she likes pink tulips, because she forgot she said it, or even that you remembered all this time, and that you went to the trouble to surprise her with her favorites.

This can apply to anything including a certain food she loves but never indulges in, a hotel or retreat she'd like to take with you, a piece of jewelry she adores but would never spend the money on herself, or maybe something off beat like she's always wanted to learn ballroom dancing - Sign the two of you up for lessons. There are many ways to make Valentine's Day memorable if you just listen.

3. Pamper Her

All women love to be pampered. Some may not be used to it, or not even know what they like, but I promise you all women will love it. A gift certificate to the spa is not the same. Here's why - When you pamper a woman you are taking care of her, you are making her feel good, and by you doing the pampering you are showing your love. So how should you pamper her? Every woman likes different things more than others, so don't be afraid to ask her ahead of time. Here are some suggestions to get you started.

You could make a bubble bath for two complete with candles and champagne. If she's not a bath girl, you might consider buying a small bottle of massage oil, have her get into her bath robe and give her a back massage. If she's a woman that spends her days on her feet, you may want to give her a pedicure.

Remember that however you pamper her it should be done for her enjoyment alone. It should not be used solely as a way to get her warmed up for sex. If she leads it that way, then all the better, but go into it with the intention of just making her feel good. Women can sense when they are being primed for sex, and when it is a genuine act of kindness.

The key is to listen to her, find out what she really likes, and plan an evening that caters to her. Surprise her with her favorite things instead of the typical Valentines roses, chocolates, and teddy bears. And, spend time and effort to make this Valentine's Day a night she will remember and brag to her friends about.

About The Author

Sara Fox is the owner of StValentinesDayGifts.com. Get more Valentines day ideas by reading her newest tips on “How to Create a Romantic Valentine’s Day Evening at Home”. http://www.stvalentinesdaygifts.com/.

Win Their Hearts, Not Their Minds

2007-02-04T08:26:00.000-08:00

Hey guys,

Have you ever heard someone say that women are really emotional? Well, it's true. And actually, everyone is very emotional... whether we like to believe so or not. We make emotional decisions and then justify our behavior with logic. Let me share something with you that happens nearly every time I'm out with my girlfriend...

Whenever I go out with my girlfriend, guys always try to come up and hit on her. It'll go really badly for them and at some point my girlfriend will tell them that I can help them get better success with women because I teach men how to meet and date women.

The next thing I know, the guys are trying to convince my girlfriend that she shouldn't be with me and that they are much nicer guys that she should be with. Then, they ask me for dating tips which they then try to use on my girlfriend.

It's pretty funny. I get a good laugh from it every time. And, it only makes them look like idiots and make her want to be with me more.

This is why...

No matter how much you beg, whine, try to convince or logically justify or rationalize to a woman why should she be with you, it won't ever change her mind. She won't ever say, "Hey, that really makes sense, I think I'm compatible with you!"

This isn't a cloning lab. You aren't in a debate. You can't say, "I have good breeding, a good job and high apparent intellect... I think we'd make good natural companions" and expect anything but her to look at you funny before she walks away creeped out.

It'll never work. Just like no matter how much a fatty tries to convince you that she's hot and sexy, if you don't have beer goggles on, she'll still be nothing but a fatty. So, STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE WOMEN TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU!

So, how do you get a woman attracted to you if you can't do it by convincing her logically?

You do it through emotions. She has to feel emotionally drawn towards you. You have to do all the things that I've been talking about... be a challenge, tease her, be unpredictable, be interesting. That's the only way you'll make a woman feel attracted to you.

If you walk up and a woman isn't instantly attracted to you, you need to press her emotional buttons. You need to be different than every other guy out there who tries to convince her to be attracted to them.

Let's talk about a few of these things that create attraction so that you know what I'm talking about...

Be a Challenge and teasing

Hot women are used to men coming up to them, giving them anything they want and then agreeing with everything that a woman says. I've had girls crawling all over me just because I disagreed with what they said and had an argument with them.

Hot girls are so bored with their life of guys doing anything for them that they want something new, some type of substance in their lives. Give it to them. Tease them about their clothes or their jewelry. Don't be worried about offending them.

Be Unpredictable

Women have the same things happen every single time they go out. Before a guy even walks up, she knows exactly what the guy is going to say.

And you know what? I do too! It's probably going to be some compliment that she's heard 7 times already tonight followed by buying her a drink that he's going to force her to accept whether she wants one from him or not.

After that he's either going to try to come on to her so hard that she basically has to call security over or he'll be so unbelievably nice to her that she'll have to come up with an excuse like, "I have to go to the bathroom" in order to get away from him without hurting his feelings.

Do something different. Be interesting, fun, exciting, challenging, engaging, cool and indifferent. Don't let her know that you're interested in her by busting her balls and showing her that her looks don't impress you.

Be Interesting

Have you ever talked about your job, school, your car or your family? Stop it! I'm getting bored just thinking about it!

Have something interesting to talk about at any time. Have a good story that you can tell if your conversation dies down.

Take her somewhere that always has interesting things going on where you can talk about relevant things in the area. I like to go to shopping malls with crazy shops in them and try on really silly trendy clothing that you only see people on runways in fashion shows wearing.

Read some books on comedy and have fun wherever you go. Do anything you can to be different than most guys and have a good time. A woman would rather be with a poor, funny, interesting guy than a rich, handsome, predictable guy any day of the week. Win their Hearts, Not their Minds.

About The Author
Christian Doyles teaches men all across the world how to meet and date women. He offers books, audio programs, seminars and workshops where he takes people into social venues and teaches them how to meet women live. Visit his site at http://www.datethewomenofyourdreams.com/ and download a free sample of his book as well as get other great information about women and dating that will cut years off of your learning process.

Seven Things That Women Want From Men

2007-02-04T08:25:00.000-08:00

It’s a question every guy asks himself, every guy struggles with at some point or another, every guy desperately wants to know the answer to:

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

The answer isn’t easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautiful…not so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. It’s enough to drive a man crazy! We want to know so badly what it is women desire that Hollywood addressed the age-old question with the movie "What Women Want" (which, I’m embarrassed to say, I enjoyed).

So, surely…there must be something ALL women want?

That’s the good news: There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And as men, that’s what we need to focus on most. Not on what we THINK they want, but on what we can KNOW they want. Maybe we think being 6′5", wealthy, and jacked like a football player is what every woman wants, but (thankfully) it’s not. Only certain women want that, and the groupies who only want a millionaire athlete on steroids usually aren’t even worth your time.

It’s better to focus on the girls YOU really want: the girls who make you feel good, and make you a better man. Empower yourself with a sense of choice, so that you don’t waste your time (and theirs) hitting on girls who don’t fit with your personality and purpose. The great news is, if you can provide the basic qualities that all women REALLY desire, then getting the girl of your dreams will be easy!

So let’s look at some things we can safely say women want in a man–regardless of his size, regardless of his looks, regardless of his wealth.

1. A demonstrative value. That is, women want to know that their man is someone other women would want. They want a certain "gotta have" quality about their man. This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend, women give us looks and always seem more interested. It’s annoying but true: the easiest way to get a girl, is to have one already!

Naturally, that doesn’t mean that you should be hitting on girls when you have a girlfriend. No way! But when you are single, it’s important to know how to show value. I’ve got a great lesson on this in my e-book that will show you everything you need to know: how to make her laugh, how to show a talent, and how to make sure she never leaves you.

There’s so much to learn, but in short, you want to be a guy girls love to be around, and that other girls want to have! If you don’t feel like you’re there right now, do your best to be a fun-loving guy who people enjoy being around. Be quick with a smile, and quick with a joke. Even a guy who smiles a lot can be someone girls want. Who doesn’t enjoy being around someone who’s happy, who lifts the mood of the room?

2. A man who needs her…but not too much. This can greatly value from girl to girl, but basically women DO want to feel appreciated. They just don’t want to be obsessed over. Guys, show interest in a woman, and make her feel beautiful and wanted…but don’t slave over her and make her feel like you can’t live without her. That’s just pathetic, and drives women away.

I wrote a blog on how women want to feel needed. Check it out now if you want to find out how to show your woman the right amount of love.

3. A feeling of security. Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everything’s gonna be all right. This doesn’t mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.

It also means coming to her protection, when she needs it. If someone is being a jerk to her, stand up for her. If she’s being threatened, fight for her. Let her know that you will fight for her, and nothing will get in your way.

One of the best ways to make her feel confident that you will protect her, of course, is to be…

4. A guy who’s in shape. Okay, I said that you don’t have to be a professional rugby player to attract women, but that doesn’t mean you should let your body slide! Part of a woman’s evolutionary mechanism says that a man who is strong will protect her and the children, as well as produce strong children. Likewise, a man who is weak will produce weak children, and not be able to protect the family as well (if at all) It may occur subconsciously, but it’s there.

So show her your value by being a guy who’s well-built, healthy, and athletic. Join a gym, not just to get women but to improve your health and the way you see yourself. Join a martial arts class–who doesn’t like a guy who can kick some ass? You’ll feel better about yourself, making it easier to pick up girls, and her mating drive will only naturally attract her to you. It’s a win-win situation!

5. Someone who’s not boring. Doesn’t matter how good looking you are…if you bore a woman to tears, she’s not gonna stick around–or even give you a chance, for that matter. Be someone who smiles. Someone who’s quick with a laugh. Someone who doesn’t take life too seriously, who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than a guy who’s stiff and serious–even if he is good looking or wealthy. Believe me, there are lots of guys who have money, who have good looks–but are single, because they’re dull and not fun to be around.

6. Someone who’s good with her friends. You’ve seen it at bars: girls always look to their friends for their approval. Get their friends’ approval, and you get the girl’s approval.

Oftentimes it’s actually best to concentrate on getting to know the girl’s group of friends before you spend time talking to her. If you can make her friends laugh and enjoy your company, getting the girl you want will be a piece of cake!

I really like this piece of advice from Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, author of The Art of the Approach, in his free e-newsletter: "Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses aren’t up."

Furthermore, he warns that you’re not doing your chances any favors by waiting til she’s alone: "If you wait until she’s by herself to meet her, you’re walking into a situation where she’s going to be WAY more defensive than usual." So learn to be sociable, and just have fun with her friends! If you can make them enjoy your company, getting your "target’s" approval will be a piece of cake.

This is also where it’s good to go with girls in the same social network as you…you already have the approval of mutual friends. The book, Sex in America, says that 60% of married couples meet through friends, work, or mutual activities. For more information on using networking to your benefit, click here.

Finally, the trait all women REALLY want: 7. A man with a purpose. Believe me, women don’t expect every guy they meet to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars, have more power than the mayor, and be more handsome than Brad Pitt. They don’t expect you to be wildly successful. But they DO want you to be headed towards success. They DO want you to have direction. They DO want you to be living up to your potential. And those aren’t bad expectations to have! Remember, "Behind every great man is a great woman." You may not be at the top just yet, but as long as you’re heading there, with goals in life, you’re bound to attract women. And more importantly, reach your own personal success.

I highly suggest you read "The Way of the Superior Man," by David Deida. It details the importance of having a life purpose, both for you and for your girlfriend or wife. The book also explains the very important idea that if someone doesn’t fit into your purpose, or detracts you from it, then she isn’t worth your time. As I said above, don’t just go for any old girl: go for the ones who fit YOU, and who make YOU a better person. That’s what we men should really want!

I hope all of this advice helps you out as you seek to improve yourself and attract the women who matter to you. Remember that it isn’t important to know what the bimbo who wants to spend all your money wants: it’s important to know what women who want to be with you want. Empower yourself by being choosy, and you’ll be sure to attract the woman who’s right for you.

Finally, for more information on attracting the specific women you really want, check out my e-book and audio series. Thanks for reading!

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James Brito regularly explores topics of attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around build confidence and get the women they deserve. To get his free six-part audio mini-course, visit:

http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/

About The Author
James Brito is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women." His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing women the world over. His immersion in international dating circles brings forth a gritty, no-nonsense approach to dating and developing relationships necessary for the modern single man. Learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at: http://www.000relationships.com

Online Dating: How To Play It Smart To Attract More Women

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Millions are doing it. 75% in England. 57% in the United States. We’re busy. We search for books, toys, gifts, investment data and gossip online. So why not go online in search of women?

It’s effective, time-efficient and casts a far wider net than you could ever do trawling bars, bookstores and yoga classes one at a time.

And the best part is – women on dating sites are there because they want to meet guys. They’re busy just like you. Teachers who don’t meet men over 12 years of age on a daily basis. Nurses whose only male contact are invalids. Women in fashion or retail who meet nothing but other women and gay men. And of course, a smorgasbord of single mothers who can’t run around at night but who are looking for men to have some fun in their lives, date or marry. These women are dedicated.

You can’t say that that about that hottie you’re dying to approach in the office down the hallway. Or that slinky beauty you’ve just spotted at Starbucks.

Some men are still shy or embarrassed about online dating. Get over it.

From a business point of view – it’s a hungry market – and it’s ravenous for you.

If you play it smart.

And playing it smart means standing out from the boring, repetitive, colorless profiles that men put up one after another.

You must approach dating in the online age with a combination of both ancient socio-biological wisdom about triggering attraction in women, and the media savvy of modern communications science in a “Blink!” world.

Most men throw up their facts on their profiles. But to get outstanding results, you have to approach online dating the same way you would if you were seeking success in the financial markets or your own career. It’s about deploying expertise and being professional about your efforts.

And to be a pro, you must master four important elements.:

1) How to read a woman’s profile for key signifiers -- hidden packets of information that contain the key to her heart and mind (and the rest of her body, too).

2) How to seed your profile with your own key signifiers that suggest…

* An easy, strong masculinity
* Sensual promise without sexual creepiness
* Gentle humor
* Brass balls and
* The subtle, unstated promise a more exciting life than she has now.

3) How to test your profile to daily increase your magnetizing “electric contrasts.” Your electric contrasts are there to tantalize women reading your profile, disallowing them to pigeonhole you and just move on. Most men project a limited vision of themselves and wonder why they never get responses.

Ask any woman – most men’s profiles leave them cold and uninspired.

But master these tactics, and you will have more dates than nights to meet them. The electricity you can create with a well thought out profile will be greeted not only with open arms, but with relief!

About The Author
Grant Adams, recently featured on ABC’s How To Get The Guy, is the author of the Net2Bed Online Dating System Manual: How To Attract The Woman Of Your Dreams For a Night, For a Lifetime or Anything In Between. He offers several free resources, including 7 Online Dating Secrets. You can get your own copy here: http://www.Net2Bed.com.

Top 2 Secret Ways To Become Irresistibly Magnetic To A Woman In Less Than 72 Hours

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You are about to learn two secret ways to become irresistibly magnetic in the eyes women.

And it will not take a lot of time.

Before you read another word, it is important that you understand one thing. And that one thing is that it is 100% possible to change the way a woman sees you.

You can change the way a woman sees you for the better.

You can change the way a woman sees you for the worse.

Let's dive in.

Top Secret Way # 1 - Become a master at getting her in a happy and upbeat mood.

I'm going to explain in detail because this may seem obvious.

The truth is many guys are doing all of the wrong things when it comes to becoming more sexually desirable to women.

Many guys out there are buying 4 ton trucks in their attempts to become more desirable to women.

Many guys out there are working out in the gym for 9 hours a day in their attempts to become more desirable to women.

Many guys out there are diving off of cliffs (daredevils that risk their lives) in their attempts to become more desirable to women.

In fact if there was a way that you could become invisible and fly through the sky, you would notice something.

In other words if you secretly entered the homes of 100 married men (while being invisible), you would notice over 90 of them initiating sex with their wives while making zero effort to get her in a positive, upbeat, happy and energetic mood.

You would also observe guys trying get sex from her while she is tired. You would see these clueless bastards initiating sex on days when she is feeling miserable.

Then you would see the guys getting angry at her when she turns him down for sex.

You would see the guy feeling hurt, sad and rejected.

You would even see these guys eventually thinking about cheating.

You would see these men become insecure creatures before your very eyes.

The truth is getting her in an upbeat mood before initiating makes a lot of sense.

All you need to do is understand that it makes sense. And this is as simple as getting her to focus on fun moments that the two of you have shared in the past.

It is as simple as making her laugh.

Think back to times when you were able to cheer her up or make her laugh and do those things.

Take her out to a comedy club or at a minimum select something funny to watch on TV.

Do you see how it works?

And once you master doing that while combining it with the next tip, magical things begin to happen.

Top secret way # 2 - L.O.C. (levels of communication )

I'll explain.

Please make sure you listen up, because it's very important and you will not find this discussed anywhere else.

Once you master LOC, you will see changes in a very short amount of time.

Try to understand and imagine your wife as being 50 different women. You can even pretend all 50 of your wives walking around in your house right now.

I'll explain so that it makes crystal clear sense.

If your wife's name is Mary, then let's say there are 50 Mary's walking around in your house right now.

Mary-1, Mary-2, Mary-3, etc..

Each Mary represents a different mood.

Do you see where I am going with this?

For example, Mary-1 could be your wife when she is tired and exhausted.

And Mary-17 could be your wife when she is happy about life, energetic and upbeat about everything.

Wouldn't you rather have sex with Mary-17?

Isn't she more likely to want to have sex?

Isn't she more likely to see you as desirable?

The amazing thing is that your "words" can magically change Mary-1 into Mary-17.

It literally takes milliseconds to move her from a bad mood to a good mood (or vice versa).

Let's move onto LOC.

The truth is women sometimes say things that don't make sense to a guy.

A guy will argue with his wife and during the argument he'll ask himself: "Does she even care about solving the problem?"

If this has ever happened to you, you obviously discovered that there is difference in the way men and women communicate. Now obviously, you already know this.

And before I continue, I want you to realize that there is so much twisted up information out there. And to me it's sad. If someone told me to make one prediction - it would be that these "how to read body language books" are going to become fazed out within the next 100 years.

In other words, the fad will be over.

And after that, people will start to focus on "communication" as the starting point for understanding women. Any time a guy is seeking to become more sexually desirable in the eyes of women, the results will begin with "communication".

If you are a man who wants your wife to see you as irresistibly magnetic, then your efforts must begin with communication.

Because if you understand the language differences between men and women, then you will quickly realize that those words have significance because it comes from her brain.

Becoming sexually desirable in the eyes of your wife must begin with communication. Let this be your focus.

The secret key to becoming increasing sexually desirable in the eyes of women depends on your ability to affect her mood. And that ability depends on your communication.

About The Author
CR James is the author of "Levels of Communication: The Never-Talked-About Skill that is 100 times More Effective than Reading Body Language", a free 18 page report available for a limited time at http://SSPmagnetism.com.